This is straight up hazing. Yes! Ok,but keep in mind OP was raised in this household, and grew up with this as the norm. If you don't cut these relatives out of your life, when Tim leaves you, you will end up marrying someone like them. Thats violent and harassment. I dont like knowing these guys are running around. Back your fiance and be in his corner. When I got engaged to my boyfriend who is a city kid who makes a living in the arts, they hugged him. But say they are just pranking him. i might be the asshole here for overreacting. Send them all links for information about consequences of their behaviour regarding his inhaler. Congrats on your wedding and good luck! Yessss!! This reads like the first 2 acts of a horror movie. This is effectively a family version of the hazing crap that some uni fraternities get up to test those who wish to join them. He would be better off using the money to wipe his ass than spend it on her, Lol she let him pay the wedding and then invites him lol I hope stepdad cuts her out too, How directly the fare there so many NTA and ESH?`, Let me guess, most have some variation of "It's YOUR wedding!!!!". Idiots. NTA ! And then expect better from family. Slashing his tyres? Where are your priorities op?! Live your life, be Happy, graduate, write on reddit, do whathever you want with YOUR Life. NTA all the way. Slashing tires? She cussed me out for prioritizing my hateful and cold hearted brothers over my stepdad and showing him that I'm not worthy of his grace which was really really hurtful for me to hear. He died of the cancer 3 weeks ago. But stay strong. This is absolutely mind-boggling to me, considering everything. Thats a lot of shit I would not put up with. Do not invite them back! And they certainly already dont like him, considering the names they have already called him. So it's safe to assume they would have stopped pranking after they "accidentally " killed him? I know you were brought up to believe this is normal, but it's not. I'm surprised he wanted to go on a 3 day trip with them after everything else they've done to him. Slashing tires isnt a prank. Its destruction of private property and vandalism. Damn your dad is awful. Asthma can be lethal, especially in a wilderness situation like camping. Because if she has an asthma attack and is more than 3 feet from one, she will die. These are all bullies who've been allowed to reign free. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Woah. They are all stupid creeps. Dad said they'll apologize if I insist but Tim will have lost the little respect they'd gained for him. He should know better. My mom's husband who he despises for no good reason but has helped heal so many of my scars and has been more of a father figure will also be in attendance. probably just some well deserved peace and quiet. They waited until he went on a trip with them to steal his inhaler. I'm firmly with you on banning them from the wedding (and, honestly, everything else too). I hope you and your soon to be husband have a wonderful life together OP! "Family" doesn't mean anything. You need to take your fianc and get the hell away from the pack, because theyre already turning on you now that youre stepping out of line and it will only get more vicious. If your mother had no input in this I'd have gone with E-S-H instead. Slashing tires and hiding inhalers are not harmless goofs. You should have put your foot down as soon as this stuff started. What the fuck is wrong with these people? Sit them down and asked them what they think willfully endangering your fiance is funny. Something they weren't at all worried about. If they are going to test your bf like that what kind of tortures do they have in store for future kids. Would these men abuse him for being too soft? Having a chronic condition doesn't make you less of a man. Only ones he were allowed to see where my grandparents. It's only tattling if Tim does it. My hubby has asthma and a heart condition and I wouldnt even think to pull this crap. Enjoy the rest of your life with your fianc. The Testing they have done is all about highlighting there own sense of entitlement over who they find acceptable to for you to be with and driving away someone they find unacceptable. Its way past any reasonable persons definition of acceptable and moved straight to harassment. I would cut them off and not look back. Thats near abuse. No, they crossed into criminal behavior with the slashing of the tires. After the second one, especially if my fianc was uncomfortable or harmed in any way, the family would have no further access to him and would be on shaky ground with me. The tire slashing would of been enough for me to cut my family out. NTA - I would suggest checking in with your fianc on how you can best support him and letting him know you stabs by him 100% (this should include after the wedding) It seems strange that the tire slashing wasnt the last straw but it will only escalate if you bend. If my husband do this to me one day, aka letting people bully me, he would find himself very lonely because I'll be gone. Hiding his inhaler on a days camping trip? And even then, if someone gets seriously freaked out (as opposed to just startled), you apologize and never do it again. Definitely hold your ground and support your fiance. Your family will never like or accept him (or possibly any guy you bring home as they sound toxic af). Likegrown ass adults? I told my mom about getting ready for graduation, but that he was not invited. Does he have have a will, advanced directive, and medical power of attorney sorted out? I agree!! Based on how they are described I highly doubt theres would be the type of people to actually confess to hiding his inhaler if he died before he found out and told OP. Thats what Im thinking too especially since they all admit it. NTA, and get security just in case if they even try to get in, The men in your family are assholes. Also your dad he wouldnt respect Tim anymore if he had to apologise to Tim?? Toxic masculinity is so fucking dangerous to all of us. NAH But honestly you have to have a talk with her and explain what youre feeling. Cut them all out. It's past time for you to stand up for yourself and him. Even Neanderthals are more caring and civilized than these AHs. Your family sucks. NTA and personally I'd go no contact. Some people say they just don't want to scare you and fear you'll refuse the treatment (or they just don't want you to ask questions they'd have to answer). This is not what men do its what arrogant and immature assholes do. That's some courage, at 22. I've been there. He was straight up trying to haze her fianc, that's unforgivable. That's when I stopped searching. Theyre both so young. And if you ever have kids then keep them away from this shit show! Your family sounds toxic as fuck. OP this is a hill worth dying on. And they think they are adults. Yep. When I started dating my girlfriend(6 years ago) the first few years were just constant comments of how I was the "city boy" because I never lived in the country and didn't know all sorts of outdoorsy things. Its your responsibility to make sure your family members are abusing your partner under the disguise of tests and pranks. NTA. Enough people in general for today. You don't need them at your wedding and honestly? This is the man you are going to marry. If YOU don't drive a wedge between you and your family over this, what kind of partner would you be? NTA. Agreed. Indeed and "it's just stuff men do..' No, no it isn't. anyway, its my mums birthday next week and i was going to take the family out for dinner at a nice restaurant. NTA that's not pranks, that's bullying. I myself have an in law I do not like but noone would ever know it because I respect and love my brother. There is archaeological evidence which suggests that Neanderthals cared for their relatives with health problems: Neanderthals would be disgusted by this behaviour. Glad you're moving on. It's helped me to learn how many families with addicts change to fit the addiction. (unsaid: Sir, if it was in the wrong spot, we wouldn't know that, or we wouldn't have put it there now, would we?). Elope! Criminal property damage and withholding vital medical equipment are not pranks. He might not be at that point yet, but he is getting VERY close. Exactly. I'm almost done and it's been a lifelong dream of my mother's to have her children graduate from college. He shouldn't have to be subjected to them for the rest of his life. And wanted to see if he was "man" enough to go through it without his inhaler, this is so toxic. NTA. They all sound like terrible people. These are stupid and potentially life-threatening. Attempted murder. Fuck those guys. You're siblings are just pissed because now they'll be targeted. That would instantly be NC for me. Tbf I think she didn't know until it happened .. the men side of OP's family seem very toxic and misogynistic as well.. they probably won't include a "woman" in their plans Yeah. Do you really need these people and their defenders in your life? If her family doesn't kill the groom first. Slashing tires is illegal and it seems there are witnesses. What will they do next, cut his brake lines? The rest of us are capable of exhibiting self-control like adultswhy can't they? Theyre clearly boys, not men. I don't think I am the asshole because I suffered years of his abuse and don't feel I deserve to be spoken to like that. Thats some psycho shit. I still don't always know for sure with some stuff, because I've come across too many crazies who really do believe things like allergies/asthma/mental disorders/autism/invisible disabilities are all fake or "excuses". OP you gotta remind your family of that point right there. Definitely NTA!! I will say though - you NEED to go to bat for him more. I cant stand it when the abuser(s) &/or their enabler(s) try to blame the victim(s) for familial rifts simply because the victim refuses to continue to be abused. NTA. NTA, in my opinion you're getting a pretty good deal, cutting one toxic member of your family out and a few enablers are going with them. You have some choices to make, and your male relations are 100% on the hook for that. Your father is an especial AH as he is too old for this complete rubbish and should be a sensible moderating influence on the younger family members. You did not ruin your relationship with your family. And maybe, just maybe your dad and other family members involved will get some personal growth out of this and grow up to be a proper men. What gives them the right to test him? I would presume that they had a similar experience with him. Get it together. Like if NTA was like the golden buzzer in Got Talent, OP would still be NTA. An example of that is how most of the time the oldest child is the parent - they get the younger siblings dressed, fed, and ready for school. NTA- people can die from an asthma attack. "NTA. He was constantly belittling my efforts, my masculinity, my profession, and my art. And to also add that theyre belittling his mental health too. NTA- for un-inviting your dad, cousin, brother, and uncle from youre wedding. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. Why are these guys hanging up to keep OP from a healthy relationship? We know our own families and how to handle them already, so it just makes sense. He wants YOU to drive a wedge between you two and your family but he's too much of an actual "real man" to ask you to make that kind of decision. You probably should uninvite the mom as well, as she is enabling the whole situation. My husband currently has lower right back pain that shoots to his groin and the chiropractor cant fix it. I would consider reinviting anyone who actually apologizes to him, without your prompts. I'll bet they're were planning the Bug Big Wedding Prank! Even if its treatable? Cousin asked if "little timmy ran to me to tattle". Hiding the inhaler was criminal! Go no contact. Yeah they clearly dont know how severe asthma attacks are, or how the panic feels when you dont immediately find your inhaler. Yeah they sound toxic as hell. Hell get seriously hurt one day. NTA - hold your ground. Slashing his tires? OP is NTA for dis-inviting her family, but she is TA for all the times she wrote off her family's actions as "pranks". NTA. Holy shit your family is a bunch of assholes. Why on Earth was Tim going with them on these lads trips if that's how they were treating him? How he didnt dip after that I just dont understand. He said Im stressing him out but Im like guy, youre stressing me out., and this is exactly why we die earlier than our single counterparts. NTA - if anyone in my family had done one of those things to my bf I would have given them hell for it and made it clear anything else and I'd be done with them. This comment is a copy of your post so readers can see the original text if your post is edited or removed. Slashing tires and deliberately hiding people's life-saving medications are not pranks - hold your ground and keep them out! There's enough idiots in the world who would say the same things I say but actually mean what they say. If you dont draw a line in the sand their nasty toxic behaviour (so called pranks) will never end. Mom Kicking Teen Daughter Out To Make Room for Her 'Hobby' Sparks Outrage,"How unbelievably cruel she is to her own child to prioritize an art room over her daughter," commented one Reddit user. For example, i won a scholarship through my dads work two years in a row and only had two tickets for the ceremony. Being in a good mood I went on a websearch to add some examples of that having happened. He wants to keep the peace and impress your family because he sees how much it means to you. This is very petty and I dont actually recommend it, but if you really want to ram your point home just be like Im marrying Tim BECAUSE hes not the same kind of man you are lol. Do not invite these toxic men. Screw the wedding, you should never speak to these people again. Now imagine your family pranking your new husband yet again on what should be a day celebrating the two of you. They fucked up. Would they still fuck with him if there was a chance hed pound them into the ground like a fence post? If people didn't unironically say stuff like this, then the /s wouldn't be needed, but there are people like that. You can die from an asthma attack! shes 16 and knows what shes doing, but i could be overreacting. Which would your husband prefer, an hour at the doctor or a lifetime in adult diapers? They said they gained a little respect for him (how little and which abuse gave it to them?!) I would have dumped OP a long time ago. Your male relatives are a perfect example of toxic masculinity. Honestly that was pretty rude of her but unless her actions were specifically malicious I don't think she is the asshole NAH. Your family is horrible. Also asthma has a genetic component, so any children Tim has could also end up developing it. Also when I had no health insurance I almost was literally about to die of the paramedics where a few minutes late then they where. This is seriously so fucked up. NTA, but your family clearly is. That was over ten years ago and we all still laugh about it. Here's a suggestion tell them that you'll invite them back if they tell a cop exactly what all they did, and ask the cop if it was illegal. Oh my days, what a mess. Did they pay for the tyres? You dont need to worry about protecting the feelings of your bullies. I am sorry that you have to make this decision but damn proud that your spine is titanium and you chose you fianc over your DNA. ESH minus your Fianc who should gtfo to be honest. NTA. When you agree to be somebodys partner until their last day you need to have their back when others mess with them. Im surprised youre the first person to say all this. Threatened much because hes more intellectual than physical? If they see that as a joke then their heads arent screwed on correctly. Then turn it around on us like hes the victim. They TOOK his INHALER. The fact that your dad said that he would apologize if he "had to" is disturbing. They are abusive, this is one of the worst examples of toxic masculinity I have ever come across. What they did was incredibly stupid. Jesus christ NTA they sound awful. NTA this is toxic masculinity and honestly who tf hides an inhaler from an asthmatic?! NTA by far. Be a man!!!. But in this case, the victim is the one feeling bad for the familial rift - which is really normal since hes the normal one of the group. Your family is not doing pranks they are awful bullys and terrorizing him. It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. I literally freaked out because I definately want my brothers to be at my wedding so badly and I tried talking to them but they were being stubborn, after talking to my fiance I had no choice but to politely uninvite my stepdad and sending him an email stating why. Right. NTA. I wonder how long they would have hid the inhaler if he started having an emergency. They didn't even stick around so if he had an attack, what would he do? Family should be loving, welcoming, and supportive first, and then if they have concerns about the way they see him treating you they have a talk with you about it. What about Tim feels any respect for him? Obviously plenty of couples choose to be childfree or go for adoption, but if OP wants to have biological children with her husband then can she really leave them in the care of her parents knowing that an asthma attack will be treated as "learn to breathe better you whiny brat"? Dont let them go to your wedding. Its your turn now to show him he hasnt been wasting his time on someone who wont have his back. Right? Must be tire then! The spelling errors are driving me insane. No fun indeed. Fun, but definitely dont do this. Zero percent chance theyd do any of this to someone who could actually take them. I think the inhaler thing was just the last straw. If you and Tim chance to have a son, dont let him anywhere near your male relatives. Asthma is a serious medical condition and if he had had an attack and they couldn't find his stolen medication, he could have been in a world of trouble. and our I think this is more of a fuck with me and find out situation. Almost 4 years later and I still wish I didn't. Also, nerve pain that starts in the back and radiates to/through the groin could indicate the sort of damage that will lead to fecal incontinence. Agreed. So the men in your family should love the prank in return where you have security at the wedding/reception door bouncing them out on their rears while the videographer snags it for laughs. NTA OP. madera county sheriff log 2022 cigna stock price history; hornby r3207. Or things kids do not realizing how serious it can be. Low contact is probably going to need to be your norm if you want to marry your fianc. It's no joke and can be severely deadly. However, when Wife is changing the diapers Husband will often enter the room and insist she smile whilst doing so as it may affect the child emotional state. This was not a prank. This is damn near attempted murder. I have been rude and made my fair share of mistakes. I will say though - you NEED to go to bat for him more. Also tell the four muppets that it's 2022 and it is not normal to bully the man your daughter/sister/niece/cousin wants to marry. Imagine what kind of "prank" they would pull at a wedding with a large audience. NTA, you should elope and go NC with this family of bullies. Having to replace all four tires is no joke. They will absolutely do this and worse to your kids, to make sure they turn out "tough, not like their father". Also you are not ruining the relationship with your family. That's an asthma attack that could turn into a tragedy. Costing someone financially and putting said persons health at risk are not pranks NTA. Dad and his cronies are all abusive assholes. Your only punishment is not coming to the wedding? Soooo NTA. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: i am thinking about uninviting my sister from my mothers birthday dinner because she abruptly left me to go to the concert with someone else. Before they say their next word have him explain this is what true strength is. I think those types of people also sometimes have some deep down feelings of envy, too, over getting degrees, but mostly they just hate that colleges help a lot of people to develop critical thinking skills and helps teens to grow up and break out of the small-town or suburb way of existing because they get exposed to lots of different people of different races and views and religions for the first time, and many find out the things thier parents said about those "others" are not true at all. They separated and very shortly after my dad started dating a women. No, they had to literally endanger his life and/or health before you took this seriously. If my fianc dumps my to escape my fam I would hate myself for the rest of my days. NTA theyre bullying your fianc, the level of toxic masculinity is insane and I feel some insecurities about him being a college kid. If he wont take care of himself, make sure youre both prepared for the consequences. I wouldve called it quits way before the inhaler incident. Or possibly become a divorce soon. Their little prank couldve cost your fianc his life. And honestly? NTA. NTA, defend your poor innocent fianc, and if any of them dispute the right to go your wedding, point out that since they admit slashing his tires and stealing his inhaler you would be well within your rights to press charges against them for vandalism and harassment. What if you had to get somewhere fast or had to get to work? See you after the wedding, assholes. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Who carrys 4 plug kits? Are you going to allow these people around your future children? You need to stick up for your husband and cut contact with these abusive freaks. Guarantee hes hoping youre that kind of person, OP. You're actually still nice in my opinion and your family members are AHs, including your mum to be honest! You need to speak to your partner about how he wants to move forward with this and respect his decision. Cut these toxic shits out of your life before they kill someone. This is awful behaviour. I hope that they see the error of their ways and apologized to Tim but until then, I guess you might have to go no contact. NTA. She's not bordering on it, she's well over the border. I say elope. "I'm getting married, I want my kids there, as well as my nieces/nephews, and a handful of other kids from both families.". When I was little we were best friends. Something like Am I being gaslit? Because thats all this post was. Thats not pranking. Your fiance doesn't deserve this. How manly would their intake photos look. I don't think I am the asshole because I suffered years of his abuse and don't feel I deserve to be spoken to like that. Taking someone's enhaler can kill them. NTA, that's not typical "men stuff", your dad, uncle, brother and cousin are bullies. Read this before contacting the mod team. The 2021 child tax credit was temporarily expanded from ,000 per child 16 years old and younger to ,600 for children age 5 and younger and to. He deserves better than a spineless wife but thats just my opinion. Being punished isnt going to make them sorry, its going to make them mad. I really hope they paid for the damage when they slashed his tyres. But while its slightly soothing to me and my core family to know that basically, I cough. Like wtf did I just read. OP why do you let your family treat him like that? NTA - those things might be what they do to test people but it isn't what "men do". It's not funny, it's messed up. https://www.bostonglobe.com/metro/2018/11/07/cambridge-health-alliance-apologizes-after-globe-magazine-details-woman-unimaginable-death/tUKk82EQQqaKMcE9L0gO6J/story.html, Id also tell them that if thats what they define as manly, theyre pathetic and useless bullies. NTA. 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